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- $Title{How Can You be Sure That Child Abuse is Going On?}
- $Subject{child abuse teacher Community Social behavior behaviors physically
- emotionally sexually physical signs bruises welts burns scratches blackened
- eyes psychological withdrawn nervous poor image lacks trust hungry
- inadequately clothed unwashed unkempt Dysfunctional Sexual provocatively
- sexually explicit knowledgeable children care kids kid}
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- How Can You be Sure That Child Abuse is Going On?
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- QUESTION: It is hard not to become involved particularly when you are a
- teacher involved with children each day and you suspect something is not
- right. How can you be sure that there is a case of child abuse going on right
- under your eyes, and don't wish to falsely accuse anyone of a crime?
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- ANSWER: Teachers are in an ideal position to observe the differences in the
- appearance and behavior of pupils suffering from child abuse. Despite recent
- backlash against overzealous reporting due to occasional false reports, the
- fact remains that over one million children each year in the United States are
- abused physically, emotionally and sexually. And teachers can do much to help
- prevent this human tragedy and stop further injury or death by judicious
- intervention when warranted.
- Because you suspect child abuse you must have a reason or evidence.
- Visible physical signs, such as bruises, welts, burns, scratches, blackened
- eyes, etc., if they occur often or are severe, should make you suspicious.
- Sometimes children get hurt while playing, but not every day or week or even
- month. Besides, physical abuse leaves telltale evidence on the skin from
- either the implement used (whip marks, cigarette burns) or the person who
- inflicted the wounds (bite marks, hand imprints).
- This evidence, if overwhelming and conclusive, should be reported without
- delay to the school nurse or physician, because the child's life may be in
- danger. But if still unsure then tactfully take the child aside and carefully
- inquire how the injury occurred. This should help confirm or refute your
- suspicions, or it may signal the need for continued observation or further
- evaluation by other professionals.
- Emotional or psychological abuse may require more expertise and time to
- detect. And you might find that the same student is being abused both
- physically and emotionally. Comparing the student's appearance, behavior and
- interactions with fellow students and adults will give you an indication of
- whether he is withdrawn, nervous, has a poor image of himself, lacks trust in
- others, etc. A child who often comes to school hungry, inadequately clothed,
- unwashed and unkempt clearly suffers from neglect that borders on emotional
- abuse. Check the child's eyes. If they are red and swollen, the result of
- prolonged crying, you may have your first important clue. Take the child
- aside and ask some simple questions about home-life which may result in
- important and revealing responses. Dysfunctional families often call their
- children derogatory names ("Dum-Dum"), and blame their children for everything
- that goes wrong. The children believe that they are always at fault and
- deserve to be blamed.
- When in doubt, you can get a good idea of how the child relates to its
- parents and their opinion of their child during a parent-teacher conference
- without being confrontational.
- Sexual abuse is probably the most difficult to detect. If the child
- behaves provocatively, is more sexually explicit or knowledgeable than his
- peers, this may indicate need for further observation and evaluation. In the
- same fashion, withdrawal from usual boy-girl relationships, normal for the age
- group, may be another clue. The key is to approach all suspected child abuse
- tactfully and with discretion because lives are at stake. But once you are
- sure any form of child abuse exists, then you are duty bound to report it
- confidentially, for the good of all concerned.
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- The material contained here is "FOR INFORMATION ONLY" and should not replace
- the counsel and advice of your personal physician. Promptly consulting your
- doctor is the best path to a quick and successful resolution of any medical
- problem.
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